Month: June 2014

A Request To My Readers…

We can all do a better job when we have some feedback.  So….are you finding these posts helpful to your lives?  Are they relevant?  Interesting? Thought provoking?  Are there issues and topics you’d like me to address?  I would value your comments, so feel free to write them!

The Challenge of Truly Being Authentic…

     Some people cultivate being “pretenders” much of their lives. How they present themselves as on the outside doesn’t equal who they are on the inside. Sometimes we see this in businessmen who are not very successful but like to appear so. “$600.00 Armani suits with a $100.00 Waterman pen in his pocket, but…

A New Perspective on Boredom…

When my children were young they sometimes mentioned feeling bored. Nowadays, so do some of my clients. I have never been able to help someone get rid of their boredom just by accepting it as such and trying to make it “go away”. But after much thinking, I do not think boredom is as simple as…

When is an apology not really an apology?

     Let’s face it, nobody’s perfect. We all make mistakes, regardless of how careful we are, regardless of how much we care about those people who are close to us. If we’re truly being authentic, being ourselves, there’s no way we can avoid periodically colliding with each other. It’s just a part of being…